I found the problem it was my land driver from realtek it was not updated.

Great. Glad it is working for you again.

I Realize Damoin found out his problem, but my realtek drivers were updated.... I just thought this morning "What if it's waiting to connect on the internet or something like that"??..... So I when to double check my "Norton Internet security" under internet, Program control. It was set to "Auto", I changed it to "Allow".... It's the first time in weeks I've been able to play on multiplayer ( I only use Multi, so I'm not even sure if Single player works, sry ). Hope this little bit of info can help someone else out there, because that was one hell of a frustrating bug to fix!!