by addresses i meant which IP address does it time out when you do the ping test. For example, this is my flowchart:
Internet/website ------ISP ---------- modem ----------- router ----------- PC
google.com-------58.168.811.xx ---- 10.1.1.1 ------- 192.168.0.1 ----- 192.168.0.2
If i can ping myself (192.168.0.2) then the PC is ok. then i ping the router(..0.1), ok, modem ok, then the ISP not ok, then i have a problem between the modem and the ISP. If (scenario 2) the ISP was ok then the internet was not, then there's a problem connecting to the website, whether its ISP problem or website issue etc. the router and modem and PC address is ok to post, the address you get from your ISP, you can if you want to, or just omit some of the numbers.
The modem IP address you can find looking through your modem's manual or googling the manufacturer for the address.. its usually 10.0.0.1 or similar..
The ethernet flashing means that its trying to fix its ethernet connection with the PC or something, and the DSL lights being off is the modem not syncing or not attempting connection with the ISP... its an estimated guess, and maybe someone who know more about how the modems works can confirm this or not.