Nvidia driver issues with a 450 GTS

I just built my new computer, the specs are below, and every time I install the video drivers for my 450 GTS all I get after the windows loading screen is a black screen, but I know that my computer still loads up cause I can here it log in, and then recognize my external hd. Any idea as to what is causing it? Oh and I then have to go back into safe mode and disable or uninstall the drivers so that I can boot back up.

ASUS P8Z68-V PRO/GEN3 LGA 1155 Intel Z68 HDMI SATA 6Gb/s USB 3.0 ATX mo bo

Intel Core i5-2500 Sandy Bridge 3.3GHz (3.7GHz Turbo Boost) LGA 1155

Patriot Pyro PP60GS25SSDR 2.5" 60GB SATA III (SSD)

MSI N450GTS- GeForce GTS 450 (Fermi) 1GB 128-bit GDDR5

Western Digital Caviar Black 1TB 7200 RPM SATA 3.0Gb/s 3.5"

G.SKILL Ripjaws Z Series 16GB (4 x 4GB) 240-Pin DDR3 SDRAM DDR3 1600

RAIDMAX RX-850AE 850W ATX12V v2.3 / EPS12V SLI Certified CrossFire Ready 80 PLUS GOLD

THOR V2-W Gaming ATX Full Tower Computer Case

Are you plugging your monitor into the 450?

Read this.
http://www.techspot.com/vb/topic179284.html

The graphics card has an additional power plug, which I have plugged into my Power Supply, as well as the monitor is plugged into the 1 monitor on the graphics card
I have tried nvidia drivers 196.10, 185.62, and 167.59