Is so much force necessary? I mean I understand the need for the heatsink not to move along the CPU, and the position most people's boxes are in, this being upright and the heatsink very susceptible to slide and become uneven, but a simple clip with a 3 hook design to take advantage of most if not all socket A system board's 3 hooks will easily eliminate this problem. The cooler I got from Vantec obviously wasn't made with socket A in mind, why? I don't know. Just that that clip design COULD have been used, and would allow the clip tension to be held back somewhat. 20 lbs/ft is amazing. Athlon XP dies weren't made to be pressed down upon with force like that. They weren't made for strength. All of the heatsink's weight is on that one small square of metal, minus the rubber stays which don't actually do much to spread out the force. Shims easily, VERY easily spread it out and thus dampen the force on the core, but retain enough pressure to conduct heat between the die and the heatsink.
The name of them escapes me, but I can recall seeing a heat sink which actually uses the four holes outside of the socket itself, and is connected to the system board with screws. I understand how someone can easily make the heat sink uneven along the core with these, but a shim would do fine.