This is out of control. So heres the update on my situation. I called Xbox Support and explained my situation. After all the crap they brought me through the same process they do everytime to make sure i was on Xbox Live even though i told them i was. Anyway...it came down to the xbox representative giving me the names of 3 ports that i need to open in my Netgear router, but i had to call Netgear to tell me how to do it. Fine. So i called Netgear and after they made me unplug my router just so i can give them my serial number and restart the router, they told me the ports i was given are invalid, and then "click", the bastards couldnt do anything for me. WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO. I cannot see any reason why me and my brother, nor any of my friends, cannot connect xboxlive but i can play on xbox live with other people perfectly whenever i want.
I really wanna get this sorted out so anything you can throw out there. Like the correct starting and ending ports for the Xbox would be good so i can try the port foreward thing (even though i shouldnt have to based on my UpnP being "on". ...this is crazy...still any help is appreciated