problems with captured video

working with videowave 7 professional and I'm trying to get the captured video that has already been burned to open in windows media player automatically. As it stands right now, when the burned cd-r is placed in a player a box appears with cdi, ext, mpegav, segement and vcd. after clicking one of them you have to "open with". I need the cd to play automatically. any ideas?

Secondly, I've also tried capturing the video using nero startsmart. When capturing I loose more frames than I'm retaining rendering the video useless. any help greatly appreciated.