I'm sorry I misinterpreted what you were saying. I realize that viewing certain illegal sites can get you in trouble, but I wasn't able to make out what you were saying because your writing is simply awful.
For example,
You wrote: "doesnt mean there trying to control there life."
You meant: "doesn't mean they're trying to control their life."
When you understand 6th-grade stuff like the difference between There, Their, and They're, your writing will become a lot more intelligible, and people won't misunderstand you as often. It's a good skill to develop, in my opinion.
In the case of viewing totally illegal stuff, I would simply tell the kid, "Don't go to these kinds of websites, because you can get in serious legal trouble". AND THEY WOULDN'T, unless they're total *****s.
You don't need to watch where they go, because they're a trustworth kid, right? They don't want to go to jail any more than you do, and since you've raised them as a responsible person, they will make the correct decision, right? I know my kids would.
PS: We all know the internet is the best place to do research! It's obvious! There aren't any sites with faulty information on the internet! The entire net is chock-full of 100% accurate information, backed up by extensive studies! No websites offer pure speculation with no evidence whatsoever! That would be madness!