I have an interesting dilemma. My experience in technology is still pretty limited (only about a year and a half). I do think I am smart and am very confident about the skills I have, though. Anyway, I was working for the DoD in Korea and recently got back in the States. When I got back, I was having difficulty getting a position until a friend of mine at Merrill hooked me up with a small consulting firm. I have only been working there TWO months, and my boss has been like a father to me- taking me to Sushi dinners, introducing me to all of his friends and connections, and even paying for my car repair when I broke down. Obviously, the guy is already like family to me. Anyway, last night, a Sys Admin friend of mine was pulling out of my driveway when I got home and said "Hey, I'm glad I didn't miss you- I need you to take my position as I'm going regional. I need to know this week." Basically, the pay is better, I'd have a nice office, they pay for any certifications or school you want, the benefits are better, the perks are better, and the stress level will be like a 10th of this consulting/support job. He said, "Your job will basically be learning the skills you need for your NEXT job, and once in a while actually doing support." But I feel like this guy I am working for taught me all of the higher level skills that I'd be using on the new job. Other considerations- the guy has like 180/150 blood pressure, one of his employees just quit and the other went back to school, so it is basically just us right now. Basically, we were way overworked (usually over 60 hours a week) when we had THOSE two people helping. I know I am using a logical fallacy of appeal to emotion on myself, but are there any ethical dilemmas? Should I give him the opportunity to buy me out (even though I know he couldn't afford to match it and honestly the stress is so high I'd rather do the other job) or will that just be even worse? "Hey, thanks for teaching me this stuff. Now pay me more for doing it."
Anyway, any advice would be much appreciated. Also, I don't want to get blacklisted either. Any ideas?
Anyway, any advice would be much appreciated. Also, I don't want to get blacklisted either. Any ideas?