I presume you have the M series drive.
The bad news is the controller is, as you are probably aware is Intel- they refuse to allow TRIM to be integrated into any new firmware.
Intel furthermore, have decided not to make the SSD toolbox (a manual version of TRIM available to their own X25 drives) available to the Kingston SSDNow.
Intel say they aren't responsible for third party hardware even though it is their controller on board, and Kingston say they cannot issue firmware because it's not their controller.
The long and the short of it is, one of them is bullsh*****g but unless something drastic happens you wont be able to enable TRIM (or a version of) on this drive.
The only option is to use the drive exclusively for the OS. The degrading in performance is a direct result of writes to the drive- so keeping these to a minimum will extend it's read/write performance. It's not ideal by any means and requires programs that require frequent install/uninstall cycles (i.e. games ) to be offloaded to a second harddrive.