I think if you get a pirated copy of something, and you would have otherwise bought that product legally, then it can be considered stealing. But only under certain other conditions. I am not sure how exactly these should be worded, but here are some ideas-
In my work we go to great pains to ensure that we have licenced copies of everything. And to be honest, through that I am sure software companies make so much money that they can afford to give me as a private individual a free copy.
Maybe as a private citizen, its in the interests of a software company to give me copies of commercial software, so long as its only used in my home. Its better for them. I get to learn the software, and then insist that its bought at work.
But if my work started to install pirated software, and its a business making money from the use of that software, then it should pay the licence.
I think that if software and music companies were limited to collecting the licence from parties who used the media to make money themselves, and only them, and for everyone else it was legal to copy what the hell you liked, there would be virtually no piracy and these corporations would make enough cash.
Its all about greed, basically. Like Microsoft needing you to activate your copy of Windows. They are already making so much, why must they squeeze out even more? Its like flogging a corpse....
I know this model only works for software used at work, or software used at work and home, not for home only products like games. For those, I think you should get the game free, but that it should be impossible to play the game on the net without paying a licence.
Do you see where I am going? One should get the software free for non-commercial use, and then pay a licence for additional features, support, etc. That's where these companies should concentrate. People should WANT to pay a license fee for good, proper support, not the crap you get from some spotty call-centre working little ****, as is predominately the case these days for support from large corporations.
All I am saying is give me more for the money and I will spend the money. Make me pay for using media to make money, sure. But don't turn up at some random kids doors, ready to take them to court because the current business model isn't working any more. That's just stupid. Unless those students themselves were selling the media to make money, I don't think it deserves the punishment it shall no doubt receive.