abe10tiger
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Why do I always listen to Vanilla Twilight and If My Heart Was A House by Owl City? lolz.... I listen to them when I'm alone, walking outside.. alone! , going to the park... alone! biking.. alone etc...gah....what the heck. 
I'm in love
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Wendig0
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Why do I always listen to Vanilla Twilight and If My Heart Was A House by Owl City? lolz.... I listen to them when I'm alone, walking outside.. alone! , going to the park... alone! biking.. alone etc...gah....what the heck.
You're sure you wanna admit that bro? He sounds like the kind of guy that cries after he has sex.
Benny26
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You're sure you wanna admit that bro? He sounds like the kind of GUY that cries after he has sex.
I thought abe10tiger was a guy in love with a gal?
Anyways, what happened to the old candle light dinner with roses, followed by a bit of slow dancing, "kissy kissy", then the sack.?
Doesn't work right for me, cos i live alone :haha:
Wendig0
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Bah, I've always thought that was the easy part. Finding someone that can carry on intelligent conversation with you for hours on end without becoming bored... That's the hard part. The rest is just creating memories.
Benny26
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Yeah i'de agree with that. I suppose the "candle light dinner" option is a little too formal...Most lady's around my area would probably more enjoy going to a theme park, or bowling.
Let the situation make the conversation...
Wendig0
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Yeah i'de agree with that. I suppose the "candle light dinner" option is a little too formal...Most lady's around my area would probably more enjoy going to a theme park, or bowling.
Let the situation make the conversation...
For 1st dates, I prefer a daytime date. It's less formal, more comfortable, and generally cheaper than an expensive dinner date that you may end up regretting if it doesn't go well. Never EVER try to impress a 1st date by spending alot of money at dinner. This tells them that they can expect that sort of thing from you often, and they will only take advantage of you. Reserve the candle lit dinners for an anniversary. They aren't for first dates.
When I lived in Texas, I used to take a first date to the Cockrell Butterfly Center @ the Houston Museum of Natural Science (if they hadn't been yet). If you're ever in Houston, get by to see it, it's absolutely amazing!
Another option I would use, was packing a picnic basket with a nice bottle of wine, fruits, cheeses, and some fresh French bread - then heading over to a nice quiet park to get to know each other. If the date goes well, I could always take her to dinner (keep the meal below $100), because the fruits & cheeses haven't spoiled her appetite. If not, I'm only out $25 for a bottle of wine and the snacks.
My all time favorite 1st date, is to take a hands on cooking class for couples. It's fun, you get to eat what you make, and I've never had one fail to impress my date. I guarantee she will tell all her friends about how awesome it was the next day (unless you ruin the mood - stay confident and positive). Ask your local kitchen supply shop where classes are being held. You're almost guaranteed a 2nd date with this option. (early evening courses are best)
Avoid art museums like the plague on a 1st date as the atmosphere is too stuffy and uptight. Keep things simple, and comfortable. Bowling, darts, and billiards can also be fun things to do on an evening 1st date (and you can usually get away with feeding them on the cheap at the venue). They help keep the mood light, and you can see just how competitive your date is. If they're genuinely trying to beat you, that's a good sign (you can make things really fun). If they're not putting forth too much effort, it usually means they plan on going home early. If it looks like they're trying, but they just suck at the sport, this gives you an opportunity to teach them (which can be fun for both of you if you play your game right).
Thus concludes the lesson on how to have a successful 1st date.
Benny26
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@ Wendig0
Wow, that post should be put in an archive or something, maybe under "Dating for beginners" . I'de have to point out though that some of the advice just wouldn't work in the UK (sadly). Some women over here can be a little more "smutty" on occasions, (or just maybe i'm going to the wrong clubs or something :haha
Some sound tips though :grinthumb:
Wow, that post should be put in an archive or something, maybe under "Dating for beginners"
. I'de have to point out though that some of the advice just wouldn't work in the UK (sadly). Some women over here can be a little more "smutty" on occasions, (or just maybe i'm going to the wrong clubs or something :hahaSome sound tips though :grinthumb:
abe10tiger
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@ Wendig0
Wow, that post should be put in an archive or something, maybe under "Dating for beginners"
Some sound tips though :grinthumb:
Agreed!:grinthumb
Wendig0
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:haha: Well since this is a tech site, I seriously doubt that will happen, but thanks! :grinthumb:
As for the smutty girls out in the UK
, I hear there are some randy "sex museums" out there :haha:
Benny26
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:haha: Well since this is a tech site, I seriously doubt that will happen, but thanks! :grinthumb:
As for the smutty girls out in the UK
Sex museums?...Damn, i must be missin' out :haha:
Digimike84
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Is good to be in Love, but love can be tricky somethimes...First it gives you all and then suddenly it all melts away and you feel empty
is like a short state of mind like your hipnotized
is like a short state of mind like your hipnotized
abe10tiger
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1 Corinthians 13:4-8,
4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up;
5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil;
6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth;
7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8 Love never fails.
True love comes only for God. To find unending love, go to Jesus and find it. He can show you how to love your spouse, where the love does not wax cold, but surges as a burning flame.
4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up;
5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil;
6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth;
7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8 Love never fails.
True love comes only for God. To find unending love, go to Jesus and find it. He can show you how to love your spouse, where the love does not wax cold, but surges as a burning flame.
Zen
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Whoooa whoooa whoooa, did we just biblical here? If the poor guy is still in love with the same lady, he doesn't need the bible, that just may complicate things, what the poor guy does need is some Celine Dion.........
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zmbw8OycJrE
If your still in love, your heart still flames, this little vid should get your motor running. Don't be embarrassed with yourself if you need a tissue, even still sometime I swell up a little over this vid!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zmbw8OycJrE
If your still in love, your heart still flames, this little vid should get your motor running. Don't be embarrassed with yourself if you need a tissue, even still sometime I swell up a little over this vid!
abe10tiger
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abe10tiger
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abe10tiger
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OMG guess what?One afternoon, I was walking my cousin's dog in the park (the dog's name is Hobbes : a Japanese Spitz) then suddenly he pulled me to this intersection. I was looking at Hobbes so I didn't know where I was going! He finally stopped and when I looked up..
There she was biking going to my direction! I was super surprised to see her at that place!
The best part was when she said greeted me. She didn't say anything though but just raised up her hand. Then she biked away. I was hoping for her to go in the park, sit in this bench and... daggit abe....
At least I was able to see her and summon every once of courage in me to say Hi!
I sooo love dogs!
There she was biking going to my direction! I was super surprised to see her at that place!
The best part was when she said greeted me. She didn't say anything though but just raised up her hand. Then she biked away. I was hoping for her to go in the park, sit in this bench and... daggit abe....
At least I was able to see her and summon every once of courage in me to say Hi!
I sooo love dogs!
Zen
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Ok, it appears that good ole Celine Dion worked her magic, but now we have to follow that up with the deal clincher! Give the following tune a good listen, there's a strong and powerful message within the song. We go from one Diva to another..............time for some Cher!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=44hsyI9YWv4
Hope this helps, this song has sure helped me out of many mental "I'm lonely" jams!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=44hsyI9YWv4
Hope this helps, this song has sure helped me out of many mental "I'm lonely" jams!
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