I’m in favor of this trend myself. I think your point is, perhaps, mixing up two very different things.
What these laws target isn’t “people talking online,” it’s large, for-profit platforms built around algorithmic engagement—something that’s fundamentally different from the forums and message boards of the 90s and early 00s, or even today’s smaller, chronological, community-run spaces. Those didn’t actively optimize outrage or addiction to maximize ad revenue.
Decentralized platforms like Mastodon or Bluesky, I think, actually prove the point: they’re harder to regulate because they lack centralized control and engagement-maximizing algorithms. Popularity alone didn’t turn old forums into behavior-shaping machines—scale plus monetization did.
Screen time limits are tangible, yes, but they’re a blunt tool and I don’t think they address the issue directly—like treating an over-eating disorder by taking away all the food. They eat less through force, not because the underlying issue was addressed. In my view, the underlying issue here isn’t so much the idea of online communication, it’s the industrialized attention-systems built on top of it to maximize engagement and monopolize attention of developing brains. The industry is absolutely guilty of intentionally making that process addicting on purpose. Let’s remove that component and see if things improve.